Every journey is the same. Every journey is different. There are the good times, the okay times, the rough times
The good times make us smile. Spending time with family, having dance parties, splashing in the water, running full tilt down the hill to the park, chasing big dogs. The okay times are just that- okay. Waiting for kids to wake up, finish their meals, *patiently* waiting for the cold weather to improve. The rough times seem insurmountable in the moment, but end up as little blips in our memories. No TV on the plane to entertain the children, meltdowns over diaper changes, whining voices wearing us down.
To every journey, there’s a beginning and an end. The anticipation of going on an adventure, counting down the sleeps, packing the bags, making lists. The sudden realization that the trip is almost over, the frantic packing, the anticipation of returning to routine, looking forward to your own bed, sadness that you have to leave so soon.
And when it’s all finished, you wish it would start again. Life is a journey in itself.
When you think back on the journeys in your life, are you a pessimist, an optimist, or a realist? Which moments are most salient in your mind? Whenever the bad moments creep into my thoughts (Simon screaming ‘get me out of my seat’ 1 hour into a 4 hour flight), I try to immediately think of something that made me smile (Simon’s never-ending version of counting: 1,2,3,4,5,6,7,8,9,10,11,12,14,8,9,10,11,12,14,8,9,10…).